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Your ex has moved on. What next?

Going through a divorce in Louisiana is difficult enough, but when your ex starts dating someone new, it can feel like salt in the wound. You may be wondering how to explain this new relationship to your children or what role the new partner will play in their lives. This can be a confusing time for kids, so it’s important to handle things as smoothly as possible.

It’s important to speak to the new partner first

Before you introduce your children to the new partner, it’s important to speak with your ex’s partner first. Find out what their expectations are and how they plan to interact with the kids. It’s also a good idea to get an idea of what the relationship is like. Is this someone who will be around for a while, or is this just a short, casual relationship? If it’s the latter, you may want to reconsider introducing them to your children. It can be confusing and uncomfortable for kids to meet someone who is only around for a short period of time.

Be honest with your children

It’s important to be honest with your children about the new relationship. They deserve to know what’s going on, and it’s better for them to hear it from you than from someone else. Be prepared for questions; some kids will want a lot of details while others may not want to know anything at all.

Try to answer their questions honestly, but don’t go into too much detail if they’re not asking for it. It’s important to respect your children’s privacy and let them share what they want with you.

Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent

It’s natural to want to talk about your ex or their new partner in a negative way when you’re upset, but it’s not fair to do that in front of your children. Not only is it disrespectful to their other parent, but it also sends the message that it’s okay to speak badly about people. Many family law professionals will tell you that the best way to protect children is to have both parents speaking positively about each other in their presence.

If you’re having a hard time being civil, try to take a break from talking about the other parent around your kids. Wait until they’re not around, and then talk to your friends or family members about how things are going.

Divorced parents can often find themselves in a difficult position when their ex starts dating someone new. It’s important to remember that your children are also going through a lot of changes, and they need your support more than ever.

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